Monday Start: Resources for the Week

start (1)The following are some links that you may find helpful and even encouraging.  Enjoy!

Productivity and Time

Essentialism may have been one of the most helpful books regarding productivity that I have read in some time.  I read it almost twelves months ago and continue to come back to the principles in the book.  Don’t miss this.  Michael Hyatt and Michele Cushatt interviews author Greg McKeown.

Work

I’ve mentioned this before but the series “How I Work” on the blog Lifehacker continues to be a series that I don’t miss.  Quite often, I discover a resource in this series that is helpful.

Encouraging

Dallas Cowboy Terrance Williams does something meaningful for a sick child.  See this news story.

Funny

Read this column by long-time Dallas News columnist Steve Blow: “‘Enjoy sinning? Join the Choir’ And other fun with church bulletin bloopers.

Inspiring

Don’t miss this very good interview with Margaret Feinberg from Religion and Ethics Newsweekly.

 

How You Can Mentor Another

mentorThe following post consists of nine practical steps that might be helpful to you if you wish to grow in the ministry of mentoring.  This post is meant to be helpful.

1.  The power of mentoring is in “coming alongside” not in giving someone more information, suggestions, advice, etc. You bring the presence of Jesus. The goal is coming alongside to help that person mature (spiritually, emotionally, relationally) in order to honor God.

2.  Make a list of FIVE people whom you might mentor. (The more specific you are regarding the identity of these people, the more likely you will actually act.)

3.  Pray for these FIVE people

  • Pray for opportunity, an open door with one or more of these people
  • Pray for your own desire and willingness to follow through
  • Pray that you might for an awareness of how to be most helpful to these people.

4.  Consider these possible approaches to mentoring these FIVE people: long term, occasional, seasonal. Discern which one (or more) of these FIVE you need to approach.

Ministry Inside.145

trust puzzleTrust is everything!

If you are a church leader, trust really is everything. It doesn’t matter whether you are a preacher, an elder, or a volunteer with the youth group, trust is everything. A congregation’s present and future are greatly impacted by whether or not the leaders within the church can be trusted.

If people trust you, that is huge. If they don’t trust you, well, I’m not sure what you can do. As a church leader, you may preach sermons, make important announcements, or initiate special projects. However, if the members do not trust you it is awfully hard to move forward.

Monday Start: Resources for the Week

startnow8norMental Illness

A gripping, powerful story from the Washington Post. “A father’s scars: For Va.’s Creigh Deeds, tragedy brings unending questions.”

Missions

See Mark Woodward’s interesting and helpful report from the recent Global Missions Conference held in Memphis, Tn.  See “What Do the Experts Say About Short-Term Missions?” and “What Experts Say About Short-Term Missions, Part 2.”

Self-Care

Michael Hyatt has written a good post!  “My Secret Weapon for Extra-Energy at Work.  I practice this more occasionally than regularly.  However, I have noticed a tremendous boost in my energy when I do practice this.

Writing

Melanie Pinola has written a fine post regarding a writing schedule but is actually applicable to other forms of work as well.  See “How to Stick to a Writing Schedule.”

Farnam Street

Do you read Shane Parish’s Farnam Street?  I find this useful.  Parish will often review and discuss books that I will probably not read but often have an interest in the subject matter.

 

Ministry Inside.141

IN67_cover_tweet_BWWorking with a congregation can bring great joy.  Yet, it is also very difficult work.

There are some behaviors which can irritate a congregation and even work to lesson a minister’s tenure with that congregation.

A minister can behave so that his own ministry is undermined and credibility is lessoned.

The following are eight behaviors that can cause a congregation to become irritated with their minister. The continuation of these behaviors over time can even lead to serious repercussions.

Don’t Assume Anything

check-your-assumptionsMy friend said many years ago:

Assumptions will kill you!

My friend was right!  Be careful about assumptions.

1.  Don’t assume I understand what you haven’t explained clearly.  So often we assume that someone coming into our system (church, school, university, workplace) knows exactly what to do. So it is Sunday morning and everyone is talking about the great dinner that took place at the church building on Friday evening. You are not sure what they are talking about.  You are puzzled.  After all, no one mentioned this last Sunday morning.  Finally someone says “Oh yes, we do this every year.  This is our annual going back to school dinner.  No one says much about it.  Everyone knows all about it.”

Monday Start: Resources for the Week

Start (1)Presentations

I enjoy reading and listening to Nancy Duarte. I have learned much from her work on presentations.  See “Nancy Duarte|Expert on Telling Stories Visually.”

What We’ve Lost

See this thoughtful article by Shane Parish “The End of Absence: Reclaiming What We’ve Lost in a World of Constant Connection.”

Books

See “The Twelve Most Magnificent Bookstores in the World.”  I would like to visit each one.

Marriage Statistics Reconsidered  

On the blog Thoughtful Women, I read this very interesting post about statistics that are generally accepted regarding marriage.”

Learning

Lifehacker recently had a post discussing “13 Tricks to Help You Remember What You’ve Learned.”

 

 

Are You Tired?

TiredI am tired tonight.

No nothing is wrong.  However, this has been a long week.  School is about to begin.  I have several projects in the mix in which I would like to make progress.  Tomorrow, I am speaking at a one day school retreat.  Then, there were a few unexpected issues today.

Yet, it is ok to be tired.

  • It feels ok to be tired when you know that your work is making a difference.
  • It feels ok to be tired when you know your co-workers are working hard with you.
  • It feels ok to be tired when you believe you are making progress.
  • It feels ok to be tired when you like the people with whom you work.
  • It feels ok to be tired when you know you’ve given your best that day.
  • It feels ok to be tired when you’ve served the Lord and you know that in some way you brought him delight.

Monday Start: Resources for the Week

Start1Life Long Learning

See Keith Ferrazzi’s fine post “Take Charge of Your Career: The Four Strategies of Staying Curious in Learning.” Ferrazzi is the author of “Never Eat Alone.”

Storytelling

See Brian Fanzo’s fine piece “My advice to Millennials: become a master storyteller.”  Good advice.

Ministry

Read Mislav Illic’s words from the Christian Chronicle regarding the death of his co-worker Mladen Jovanovic.

Free

10 New Yorker religion articles to read while the archives are free.

Scholarship

Robert P. George in First Things.  See “Advice for Young Scholars.”

Creativity

See Elizabeth Gilbert’s transcript from her TED talk, “Your elusive creative genius.”